I almost f**ked up my life by quitting my day job for my startup

jaminko

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Hi, everyone! Yesterday I wrote and posted a blog post about my entrepreneurial journey and a huge mistake I almost made. I thought you guy's might find it interesting/useful. Please check it out and let me know what you think!

I cut a few parts to make it readable. You can see the full post here.

In early November of 2013, I was sitting at my desk at one of the largest financial firms in the world thinking about the conversation I was about to have. I kept playing and replaying over and over again how I was going to tell my boss that my startup had just received a seed round of funding (if you can call $100k a seed round these days) and that I was putting in two weeks notice. I was 15 minutes away from taking the plunge and pursuing my dreams. Then I got a text:

Hey man, our angel just pulled out.

Crushed.

I sat at my desk for 20 minutes or so trying to understand my feelings. I was stunned that the deal I worked so hard to put together fell through, and I was horrified that I was 15 minutes away from quitting my job for a startup with $0 in the bank. I had an amazing role at a prestigious financial company, an amazing and supportive girlfriend (now fiancé), and a whole host of expenses to pay for. Not the least being an engagement ring for said fiancé. So what was I doing nearly throwing away the career and life I had worked so hard to obtain?

I deeply love entrepreneurship. I love the thought of building something that I have ownership of, and I love being in the trenches, fighting for traction with my cofounders.

That love, however, nearly betrayed me. Because I nearly dropped everything for an idea that not even I was sold on and a team that would eventually dissolve due to petty disputes. Looking back, I assumed we’d just figure it all out, but we never did. I was ready to jump before we had any validation. I was ready to jump before I validated whether the product would make any money (just because an angel gives you money, doesn’t mean you have a product that will sell). I wanted to jump before I validated whether or not I was truly passionate about the idea and was ready to spend the next five years of my life building. Most importantly, I wanted to jump before I validated whether myself and my family were personally ready to take this journey.

My love of entrepreneurship nearly drove me to make the same mistake I feel thousands of otherwise brilliant entrepreneurs are making. Quitting your day job before you truly have validation.

True Validation Always requires a credit card

My team spent months building a product we thought customers wanted. We conducted customer interviews, released surveys, and drove traffic to a landing page to validate our little SaaS App. We got people to sign up to a mailing list… so we must have a validated idea and product/market fit, right?

Wrong.

We released our product to our list of over 1,000 signups and received very little interest, and 100% churn from those who chose to sign-up. Still, we thought with a seed round of investment we could “figure it out.” So we took our business to some angel investors and somehow got a bite.

The problem with this plan, however, is we’d be burning investor money while we continued to attempt to pivot and find some traction. This means by the time we found any sort of traction, we’d likely need even more investment in order to scale. As a startup, you should be scaling with other people’s money, not trying to figure out what it is that you can build that people will want to buy. While you have a steady income from a day job, you need to HUSTLE to gain traction. For SaaS, that means sales because at the end of the day that’s the only thing that matters.

Our lack of customer validation through traction was a huge red flag, but not the only red flag.

Validate Your Own Passion

I like music. I listen to Spotify for a few hours a day while I work and while I’m at the gym, and I’ll attend a concert every now and then. I however have never met a concert promoter and I’m not even sure how the concert event industry works. Yet I was going to be the main co-founder of a company that sold an app in the concert venue space.

That wasn’t the real issue, however. The real problem is I didn’t want to learn anything about the concert venue industry. I didn’t want to learn about the industry because I didn’t have a passion for the space or the product. I was happy to rely on my team to have industry expertise, and I’d just learn what I needed to from them. Even worst than that, I was already thinking about an exit. Nevermind the naivety of even thinking we had a shot at a profitable exit at that point. How could I be starting a business that I couldn’t wait to exit because I didn’t like the industry it was in?

Looking back, I cringe at the excuses I would make in my head as to why I was even pursuing this idea. I wasn’t excited about the thought of coming home from my day job and working hours to build this business. I tried to be excited, but I never validated my passion for that product.

We’ve talked about product/founder fit in the past on the Nugget blog, and this was my first-hand lesson in how important it was If you aren’t willing and excited to work nights and weekends like a sleepless maniac to launch your startup, you haven’t validated your passion. If you don’t dream of working in your space for at least the next 20 years, then you haven’t validated your passion.

Want to build a million dollar business? You better have passion.

Check Your Personal Validation. Are You Really Ready?

The people closest to me have always been encouraging when talking about my entrepreneurial aspirations. However, when it’s time to quit your job, tones tend to change. Those that once were your biggest cheerleaders may turn into the one’s questioning you the most. You can’t just lump them all into the “They just don’t get it” category because most of them are truly concerned with your future.

I have a supportive family and a wonderful fiance that I thought would be 100% onboard with the idea of giving up the huge raise, signing bonus, and benefits that I spent $100k and four years in school getting. Unsurprisingly, they were less than enthusiastic. It probably didn’t help that I only had about four months of personal runway to live off of, and as stated above, clearly no passion for the space.

It’s critical to have a support system around you when you are making such a drastic decision, emotionally and financially. You don’t want to be worried about where your next meal ticket will be coming from while you’re trying to build a unicorn, and you’re going to need someone to vent to when another growth project goes up in flames. So make sure that you are financially ready to pursue your dream. Have an exit strategy that includes going back to a paying job, and please, embrace your family, don’t push them away. You’ll need them to pick you up when you fall.

How do you know?

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@jaminko i wonder how much you paid for someone to write this article and how much your spending to market these fake stories. its getting to be a bit cookie cutter... spot it a mile a way.
 
@moelilian I think he might be the one getting paid to market and write the stories. All the blogs he has posted links to have similar sounding writing, but they link to different blogs.
 
@moelilian I hadn't finished reading the post when I saw your comment. I went back looking for something fishy; found a link at the end of the article. "Hmm, must be marketing copy for some product."

I found a few other relevant articles and eventually the product being sold. I have to say, I enjoyed the topics of the articles and if the product being sold is for real (actual ideas from actual businesses seeking actual solutions), then it seems like a worthy investment.

I'm actually considering signing up for their trial week to see if the product's content is genuine. Looks to me like there could be actual value. Isn't that what r/startups is all about? Creating value that others are willing to pay for? I'd say whomever is behind this post is doing their marketing well and found a good channel to publish their content. Only question now is if the product is vapor or not.

Curious, why would you call out the OP for cookie cutter content? Even if a copy writer wrote it, the story is relevant, enjoyable to read/imagine, and a good example of crafting words to server a purpose.

EDIT: I would knock points to the OP for copying and pasting this article from their blog. Maybe that's what "cookie cutter" was referring to?
 
@amanda911 of course your going to sign up for the trial week. you either work for the guy or u are the guy with another account replying to yourself in support of it. i'm just pointing out the obvious with the article. yes i agree its a nice article, but in the end its just leading you to buy/try something. nothing wrong with it, but i'm just seeing alot of these articles these days and they all have similar theme to it. good job in wasting my time to reply anyways.
 
@moelilian If you think I'm being disingenuous, check my user history.

Either way, I don't understand why you'd waste your own time in the first place making a negative comment about the purpose of the post.

Again, the post seems relevant and valuable for r/startups.
 
@moelilian Hi box1820.

I'm sorry you didn't really like the post. It was a true recounting of my journey from one of my first startup endeavors. It was for a startup called Blem. (Blem.co) I'll shoot you our pitch deck if you would like further proof.

I'm linking because I do want traffic to one of my new projects, Nugget.one and I do content marketing for a few clients and tend to post applicable one's here.

Being totally transparent here. Not trying to fool anyone, just telling my story.
 
@jaminko Good story, Reddit just is super sensitive to "being sold to." I'm a few months away from that point of no return, hoping an MVP that actually charges can be put in place to validate before I give my 2 weeks (or 2 days who knows).
 
@chuckh34 Yea, the duality on this sub really confuses me. The level of cognitive dissonance that goes with talking all day about "getting customer validation" and "growing my revenue base" and at the same time raging against anyone selling them anything makes my head hurt.
 
@jaminko Your article is basically written like you're giving entrepreneurial advice as a non entrepreneur. It completely voids your credibility and on looking at the comments you now work at a marketing agency, it's all so completely unoriginal and uninspiring.

If you're going to write content then for the love of god please make it more interesting. This is such a bleh story of how you backed out of taking the 'plunge'. There's nothing new or unique about your reasons for doing so or what you learnt - it's just a click bait title that I'm annoyed to have clicked on.
 
@riversong1119 Sorry you didn't like the article man. It sounds like you are perhaps pretty far into your journey, so maybe the article wasn't for you. I'm hoping that there is a kid sitting at a desk job that he hates somewhere that this post will resonate with.

I own said marketing agency, so I am an entrepreneur.
 
@jaminko this story was laughable. OMG GUYS I WAS ABOUT TO QUIT MY JOB AND THEN I DIDNT. wow good story dude, you really came this close to the void man, what a life lesson.
 
@jaminko I'm not convinced that this story helps entrepreneurs. You 'dabbled' in a startup and made mistakes that most other oblivious entrepreneurs make. Your intention is to drive traffic to the startup school that you are promoting.

Here's an analogy:
It's like a beginner chess player writing a blog because they lost their first game, and writing tips for beginner/advanced players how to not make the same mistake. Then promoting a chess learning course.
Does that sound legit?

There are many ways you could've blogged that would be useful, even if you didn't have the experience to back it up. But your ulterior motive shows in your writing.

P.s. Not sure what value your startup can bring that other startups (with vastly more experienced mentors) don't
 
@samuru Hi LOLfred,

I know this thread has been deleted, however, I feel compelled to set the story straight regarding this article. Perhaps I'm being overly sensitive to Reddit, but I don't feel a few people have shifted the meaning of the article to be something it is not.

This post was created as a cautionary tale to young entrepreneurs to not jump at an idea without the validation that I mentioned. I'm not promoting a startup school, Nugget is simply a community that helps identify pains that certain markets are having in an effort to help entrepreneurs build SaaS products (not promoting, just clarifying).

My own entrepreneurial journey has gone beyond this post and I've had many more successes and failures much bigger than this. However, I thought this would be useful to the girls and guys sitting in the position I was 3-4 years ago. So this post isn't intended to bring value to startups, it's intended to bring value to very very early stage entrepreneurs.

I really appreciate your comment, if we aren't criticized then we do not grow.
 
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