@zedrick āWinners focus on winning, losers focus on winnersā - the phrase just stuck with me from the moment I first read it.
Folks, YC is a bunch of absolutely lovely people both in the firm and in the community, but it is still a business! Itās an investment firm not a venture philanthropy organisation. Supply/demand still applies. Scarcity of resources still apply.
If one of the founders is an experienced entrepreneur with an exit - they have one unique advantage over new pre-product / pre-experience teams complaining on not succeeding at first trial. They know how to suck at things and move forward. Because you will suck. A lot. A lot more if you think you wonāt. And overcoming this sooner than running out of money is the major difference between you and that guy/gal with 300M+ exit.
Thereās nothing personal about not getting in. Nada. So learn to be comfortable with small hiccups and failures and focus on the goal.
Getting disappointed for not receiving a check and not getting into the most competitive startup pigeon contest on the planet is not very productive. Use the disappointment to build a great company and prove everyone wrong by succeeding. Or prove them right by falling into self-indulging complaining & depression pit.
Check out Bessemerās anti-portfolio for inspirational stories of how even experienced investors can get it wrong big time. Strive to be one of those stories, and reapply when you are. Or don't. Success stories read less boring when they are built on hardship & defiance of the disbelief.
Cheers